We, Filipinos, are known for our hospitality, our being industrious, and our do-what-we-must attitude. But we do have a few traits that make me not like being a Filipino.
10. Last minute everything.
We like doing things the last minute. This is from packing our luggage to doing our research paper to booking flights to doing homework. The list goes on. I don't know why we do this. And to top it off, we even ask for extensions. Geez!
9. Invite thyself. In other words, gate crashing.
It maybe because of us being so hospitable that some would actually abuse the hospitality. It is very common for us to be invited to Fiestas. But Fiestas are a different story because their more of a 'public' occasion. Let's see a more private occasion such as a birthday or a wedding. We Filipinos tend to invite ourselves just because we know the celebrant. And to add damage, we, the not-invited, tend to invite someone else to the occasion. Could we not wait to be invited? We should be ashamed of ourselves.
8. Hospitality to the maximum.
Yes, we are hospitable but we do have limits. And please put limits! In relation to gate crashing, Fiesta. Why do many Filipinos do so much for people they don't know. I mean, they take loans, borrow money from loan sharks, sell their belongings just to have a big feast at their homes during a Fiesta serving someone they don't even know. Excessive spending just to be hospitable. Ever wonder why we're so poor.
7. We think we're the center of the universe.
We would like, as much as possible, that our wants (Yes. That's right. Wants, not Needs.) be given. Everyone must conform to what we want. And I'm speaking in international terms here, not just local. Say an OFW is charged with something. We plead to the country concerned to please free the accused OFW. "Please be merciful." But if a foreigner does something bad to us it's an entirely different story. "Burn him at the stakes! Show no mercy!" Bah! Please people. This is just sickening.
6. Finger pointing.
Do I need to elaborate on this one. This happens everyday. All of us Filipinos know about this. I think most of our laws are based on this premise: Someone must always take the blame even if it's an accident. Maybe because investigating procedures here in the Philippines are just so bad that someone must automatically take the blame. Let's see. A collision of a huge truck and a motorcycle. Motorcycle rider dies, it's the fault of the truck driver. Plausible. But if by some freak of nature that the rider survives and the truck driver dies, it's the fault of the rider. Trust me, that's how it will be. I guess the law states that, I a collision of vehicles, it is always the fault of the survivor even though the survivor is a passenger. This 'sacrificial lamb' concept blows.
To be continued...
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